Drama

What Drama?

in May 2022, a beware came out claiming that I'm a "pedophile" and "groomer.
the reality is that I had just broken up with my bf not even a day prior, and his best friend wanted to deplatform me, so he reached out to someone who abused me back in 2015 and they came up with reasons to cancel me.
The accusations are referencing a situation from 2015 where the information was skewed in their favor. they used half-truths to "prove" their lies.

I ask you from the bottom of my heart to please listen. I'm tired of the death threats, I'm tired of being labeled as a predator for an accusation from someone who always hated me. I've lost so much because of this drama. I've lost my motivation, my savings, majority of my friends, the man I loved..

I ask you to please, consider that maybe people assume these accusations are correct when they really aren't.
Kitkat abused me physically and mentally for years and decided to flip the narrative to make him look like the good guy. The reality is that we were both at fault, but it was NOT grooming. It was just a toxic situation caused by his immaturity mixed with my inability to say no.

People ask why I didn't cancel kitkat earlier about his abuse to me, well actually I did back in 2018, but I didn't wanna make a big deal about it because I would rather just move on and didn't want to ruin his chances at friendships or opportunities. So the post didn't get much traction and I didn't push it.
Just before I was cancelled in 2022, I actually sat down with kitkat in person at a convention in las vegas and he said "water under the bridge, I'm sorry for what I did to you, can we just move on?
I apologized for my wrongdoings too and we agreed to just move on. I honestly was THRILLED about this. I don't want enemies. I gave him a little badge I made. I had hoped we could just grow from here. But obviously something happened between then and may in 2022 that caused a document to be created.

I AGREE WITH YOU ALL that I never should've been involved with this kid back in 2015.
Even still, I never groomed him and none of this was recent. Grooming is when someone forces someone underage into sexual encounters and tells them not to tell anyone for whatever reason. I don't have the willpower or balls to force anyone into anything. my problem was that back then, I didn't know how to say no to anyone. I have since learned that skill very well. And I check ID's before even a date with someone.

The Accusations and document

The original beware is here on twitter
He claimed "As some of you may know, it has come out that @/SkyeCabbit groomed and dated me when I was a minor and I was 15. "

why did he word it like that if he was the one making these claims?
next point, he wasn't fuckin 15.. I can prove it. he was dating some other chick back then, up until he was 16.
that doesn't make anything better though, 16 still sucks. with hindsight, I never should've spent any time with that asshole or done anything with him. we didn't date, that was the agreement after he fuckin lied to me about his age.

They are ASSUMING it was grooming because the age difference was inappropriate. They aren't considering what the dynamic was actually like.
(here's photos of him dating the other girl in 2015)

what was the dynamic actually like in 2015?

What DID happen in 2015-2016?

I moved in with him and his family from November 2015 to may 2018. I had my own bedroom and worked to earn my spot in the home. The reality was that he wanted to date me SO bad during this whole time. I had a crush on Aiko wolf and possibly wanted to date him at the time. Kitkat actively took steps to keep me from talking to Aiko and to keep me from being alone around anyone. He knew I wanted to leave his home and move out and he would BLACKMAIL me to get me to stay.
He went through my phone regularly to see who I talk to, and often held onto my phone. He listened in anytime I even talked to my parents. He wouldn't let me go do anything alone, he would get angry, yell, make my life miserable, ban me from talking to friends.. He kept telling me over and over that he'd ruin my reputation in the furry fandom if I ever moved out or stopped working with him on suits. He offered to pay someone to murder Aiko wolf and to beat me up at a con. He held a knife to my friend's throat because he thought the friend was hitting on me. We "made" a fursuit business together and he spent most of the days playing CoD on the computer while I worked for hours, then he demanded half the income. He argued that business money should cover our travel to countless conventions even though we didn't make hardly enough to do so and my health was awful at the time.

How did it get to this? I never should have agreed to move in with him, but I did. In 2015, I wanted nothing more than to get out of my childhood home in Tampa, Florida and go someplace. His family offered a room in their home in prescott Arizona, so I agreed.
It's easy to see how terrible an idea this was with hindsight.

From the beginning-

Him and I did 'sortof' date informally in 2015, he told me he was 19 years old and we got along really well. He told everyone he was 19 at the local meets. We did do some questionable nsfw things, and we were both interested in dating one another at that time. THEN he found out he had to move to Arizona with his family, he eventually told me his real age. He was 16.

I was outraged that he had lied to me, I ignored his messages for months, we fought over and over over text. I didn't go see him anymore, we didn't hang out. I have it all saved if you wanna see any of it. I keep my receipts.
His mom offered for me to rent a room in their new home in Arizona, thinking that it would be a way to get Kitkat to move without putting up a fight for being forced to leave his friends in Florida.

For some reason, I still decided the opportunity to go to arizona would be better than staying in Florida.
likely because I had just recently had a family member move back into the home who had sexually abused me in the past. I wanted to get the hell out and kitkat was still my best friend at the time.

I made him agree that we would stay "FRIENDS" and not date due to our age difference. That was the agreement, and I did end up moving in with them in Arizona. I worked full time at a grocery store and slept anytime I wasn't working, barely got any days off, they really worked me hard. Ended up really hurting my knees and back from working there for the 6 ish months that I worked there. point is, I didn't have hardly any time at home, and when I did, Kitkat and I were mostly working on starting up our redstorm fursuits business together. we were passionate about it and had lots of demand and made great suits.
(saying it again, with hindsight, I never should have moved in with him and his family)

In 2017, I got really sick. I had undiagnosed ulcerative colitis that was causing weight loss, intense nausea, weakness, constant and urgent bathroom visits and I had trouble keeping food down. during the month of may in 2017, I didn't make a single purchase for groceries or food because I was bedridden. I went to the ER four different times and saw many doctors to try and figure this out. Kitkat went to FWA alone that year and I stopped trying to find a way to move out as I had bigger things to worry about. I weighed 92 at my lowest, and was so weak I couldn't walk more than 1000ft before having severe gut pain and stopping. I don't mention this time period much to people because without understanding how severe it was, it sounds like an excuse, and just encourages more people to attack me.

Him and I started fighting pretty regularly as soon as 2016. I have screenshots where I tried to move out immediately. I was looking for someone who had a room I could rent, and found one. He offered a good price and we made plans. Kitkat read my messages on my phone and found out about it. He threatened me yet again, saying he'll destroy my image completely within the fandom if I leave. Then he held onto my phone. I cancelled the plans to move. But I would try again at a later date.
This later date when I tried was in 2017, and the friend was going to come to the house and pick me up. It was a 3 hour drive so it was serious. The friend actually couldn't make it to our house as there was 2 inches of snow and we were back in an unplowed neighborhood. When kitkat realized I was gonna move, he LOST it. Locked me in my own room, took my phone, then he stood inside my room in front of the door and said he wasn't going to leave until I decided to stay. I said no way, i'm out. I tried to get out the window, he grabbed me and threw me on the bed. Again stood in front of the door. I got angry, told him to move, he cursed at me and refused. I ended up biting his nose out of anger for being locked in my own room. I wasn't about to put my hands on him, but I bit him. He still didn't let me out, he typed on my phone to the guy I was meeting and told him to go back home, that I wasn't moving. I sat on my bed for hours until kitkat finally eventually left.
Yall seriously wanna bully me for going through this? I still get death threats to this day.
People act like I literally go around touching children. NO, this is what they're calling "me grooming him". This fucking crap. I'm literally crying as I write this, I cannot express to you just how fucking horrible he treated me sometimes. My dad was the only one who tried to help me out of this situation.
He knew about all the shit Kitkat put me through, I called him all the time, he was my rock, he kept me going. My dad died in 2020, so he's not around to help explain what I went through to you all.
My mom wasn't quite there for me like my dad was. I really wish he was still around to help explain all this and to help me get some closure on these things.

what happened in 2022 to cause this?

Aiko wolf and I have dated for over 4 years. The past year has been rocky for us. We fought a lot which was something we didn't really do prior. We broke up around may 2022, he vented to his friend "omnom squirrel" who is a popular furry who gets guest of honor all the time at various conventions and is the singer in a band. This "friend" decided that without hearing my side of things, he'd get involved in our relationship issues and would just de-platform me so I'm not "around" anymore.

He gaslit Aiko wolf, told him how to feel about everything I did. fed him ideas about how I might be cheating on him, about how I broke up with him so I could go date someone else. He TOLD Aiko how to feel. The definition of gaslighting. Then tried to get Aiko on board for cancelling me.
Aiko firmly said no, that's not how he solves problems. So omnom went forward with cancelling me anyway. He reached out to kitkat, whom he knows has a rough past with me. probably gaslit him too, probably told kitkat: "she's going around abusing people left and right, she needs to be cancelled".
Then Kitkat was suddenly on board. Kitkat never thought I groomed him until omnom came along and put words in his mouth. Kitkat just didn't like how him and I never got along, he wishes that he didn't waste so much time trying to date me, and thinks its my fault for him falling for me at all.
Not even the next day, omnom was the first to speak, calling me 'worse than lucky coyote'
even though lucky coyote was accused of zoophilia and pedophilia and being angry and rude to customers. people believed omnom without question.
Then omnom's little minions came out: lolo fennec, Roman Yeen (owner of lemonbrat), Splat, and more came out to bitch about me.
Kitkat posted a google document and beware shortly after omnom made a statement, the post got THOUSANDS OF LIKES and shares because the accusations were so outrageous.

But I tell you what, that document was NOT written by kitkat, it was attatched to someone elses google account, AND the wording was not within his vocabulary. He didn't write it. He was along for the ride.
While all these other people hopped aboard this bandwagon to cancel me.

I couldn't make a statement or reply or even go see my therapist because I literally caught covid that day. the beginning of a very long 14 day quarantine. Aiko had not caught it so my room being next to his, meant I had to stay in my room all hours of the day. Aiko didn't say a word to me through this whole thing, I think he liked watching me suffer after breaking up with him. He never defended me, never said a word to anyone and just cut me off in every avenue. this justified my decision to break up with him. I would've defended him no matter the cost, if he were accused of something like this. He just didn't want to get involved in something that would drag him down even more emotionally and mentally after already dealing with a tough breakup. Please don't guilt him for this. I have made peace with him and his decision to cut me off.

I slowly entered a dark mindset, depressed, hopeless. I didn't want to exist anymore. I slept for days, when I woke up, I'd just go back to sleep so I didn't have to feel anymore. I became suicidal, called my therapist many times, called my friends.. quickly found out which ones were real friends and who was a fake friend. I had 2 people who helped me keep myself together enough to make this statement.

It didn't end there, MORE people attacked me, videos were made on youtube about me and how horrible I am. It was trending. It became literally trendy to bash skye cabbit.
I was kicked out of fursuit maker group chats, facebook groups, blocked by a majority of the people I considered friends at the time, someone leaked my personal information and tried to justify sending people here to literally kill me, nothing ever happened, police were informed. I continuously get hate on every platform, my business has tanked. The 25 fullsuit commissions that Aiko and I accepted in 2021, were now mostly up to me(Aiko agreed to do the bodysuits only for a bunch of em) and the money was spent already prior. So I had a backlog of 25 suits to do still, 5 of them demanded full refunds which I had to pay out of my own pocket, an excess of 19,000$ in 2022 alone. I had to get two personal loans to cover those. They were paid in full though, proud of that at least.
I'm writing this in july 2024 and I'm still working on that same backlog of suits, with probably another year to go.
This whole thing really messed me up good.

But he had all this "proof"?

it was all taken out of context and every single screenshot was edited.

This screenshot to the right is one I pulled directly from kitkat's document on me. He cropped it with google docs crop tool to crop out the name of who typed it. He tried saying that this person attacked him because of me? I jumped right to defend him when I heard about this event. I doubt it had anything to do with me, I seriously have just found out about this person existing when this event happened. Here's someone else's experience with this same event.
(seen below)

Next, I'll show you a passage he took out of context and put into his document to use as his own proof. He forgot to include context, so it reads as if I'm being really creepy to him. The reality is I was not interested in dating him, I was annoyed with him and I was talking in a fed-up frustrated way.

by this point, he pushed that he wanted to date me over and over and over and I was not interested BECAUSE of his age.
I'll provide more screenshots to show this.

below (left)
he says he's gonna 'throughing my self into i a hole' a weak attempt at threatening suicide for my attention.
below (right)
Was at FC either 2016 or 2017, I slept in someone else's room because he was drunk as fuck.

The suggestive photo

This photo. COME ON.. I just got that suit, I was rolling around trying to be a cute wolf. I wasn't trying to be fkn horny. The tie-strings on my pants fall between my legs and look like a damn thong. He took these photos with his own phone when I was trying on my head for the first time, I wanted some basic photos, I didn't control what he took that day.

Lemme just point out that he had ZERO nsfw photos of either of us, no nsfw talking, no flirting, no inappropriate chats. SO MANY PEOPLE ACTUALLY GET CANCELLED FOR PEDOPHILIA WITH THESE TYPES OF PROOF, but yet people believe this one more because it's interesting.

Kitkat got cancelled later on

Later on after all the dust settled and after kitkat was put on a pedistal for being a perfect little angel that was hurt by the big bad skye. He was cancelled for literal RAPE.
But even though he forced himself on multiple people, threatened people violently, and fabricated art to frame someone as a zoophile, all the comments are about how bad skye cabbit is. Because it's "cool" to hate on skye cabbit.
After he cancelled me, he was given staff positions at denfur, offered free hotel rooms at cons and was made a dance competition judge even with no actual dance skill or knowledge himself. People pulled him into their groups and praised him for being so "brave" and speaking up against me.

Bottom line is, he skewed the story to make it seem like he did nothing wrong. Then cancelled me to devalue any claims I made that he hurt me. Then once he felt like his actions to me weren't bad, he continued to hurt others because it's "fine". As long as he thinks he did nothing wrong, he'll keep hurting people.

Fabricated nsfw of a minor

Took a while to figure out who was doing it but I eventually discovered that "Quetzal" or "living carousel(fursuit maker in AZ)" had been fabricating PORN of my character with a minor to frame me as a pedophile. They signed it with my name and posted it on an account they created under the username SkyecabbitAD on twitter. THEN they used this account as "PROOF of pedophilia" on another account of theirs "throwawaycabbit" or skyecabbit1010 on twitter. This is all still up by the way. Twitter doesn't believe that it goes against their terms. This is fucking disgusting and they probably did it because Skye is asexual and I don't ever want any art or photos of her nsfw.

So I found out who did it because of this screenshot:

>>Witness Testimonies<<

the above link includes over 39 DIFFERENT PEOPLE'S testimonies explaining what they saw and their interactions with myself and kitkat during the timeframe when we were friends.

So why is it cool to hate Skye?

Because I got popular at one point, and people love to hate popular people. People love to get behind a cause and love to have excuses to harass and bully others when they can justify it. As soon as someone is accused of pedophilia, suddenly they become "the pedophile" whether the info is right or wrong. Then everyone feels good attacking the "bad guy". how GOOD does it feel to harass a person who did something horrible?
But what they don't realize is.. everything was blown WAY out of proportion, they're ignoring all the horrible things kitkat did and abusers now control a majority of online spaces because they'll cancel anyone who steps in their way. Nice people don't want to start drama.

So DONT listen to their crap, there's more to the story than what these loud voices claim.

At this point, I'm not anywhere near the person I was ten years ago. With hindsight and much more maturity that I have now, I AGREE WITH YOU ALL that I never should've been involved with this kid.
Even still, I never groomed him. Grooming is when someone forces someone underage into sexual encounters and tells them not to tell anyone for whatever reason. I don't have the willpower or balls to force anyone into anything. my problem was that back then, I didn't know how to say no to anyone. I have since learned that skill very well. And I check ID's before even a date with someone.

If you avoid me because of accusations, you're empowering everyone who uses false accusations against kind and caring people. don't let these people influence you, don't give them the power they desire.

All I want is to give people cheap but great suits, I'm not in this for the money, I want to help people and give free shit away. But half the fandom avoids me and bullies me because its 'fun'.
List of people who have been shitty to me(yes I'm that petty):